Nine golden rules
Nine golden rules extracted in Qur’an from suratul (HUJURAT)*
1. “Fatabayyanū”
Investigate: when you receive an information, lest you harm people out of ignorance.*
2. “Fa’aslihū”
Make settlement: between your brothers as believers are brothers.
3. “Wa’aqsitū”
Act justly: whenever there is a dispute try for settlement and act justly among both parties as Allah loves those who act justly.
4. “Lã Yaskhar”
Don’t ridicule people, perhaps they may be better than you to Allah.
5. “Walã Talmizū”
Do not insult one another.
6. “Walã Tanãbazū”
Do not call each other with offensive nicknames.
7. “Ijtanibū Kathīran mina-z-Zanni”
Avoid negative assumptions, indeed some of the assumptions are sins.
8. “Walã Tajassasū”
Do not spy on each other.
9. “Walã Yagtab”
Do not backbite each other. Its a major sin
May Allah guide us, protect us and make it easy for us and our loved ones .
Aameen.